Do You Know the Difference Between Delegating and Abdicating?

delegating and abdicating

This is the story of a small business owner — let’s call him Bob — who goes through a challenge faced by millions of business owners:  his business becomes successful and takes off.

That sounds like a good thing, doesn’t it?

Here’s the challenge: Bob must transition from being a solo entrepreneur, to a business owner with employees.

Bob goes from being an individual contributor, to directing others.

Directing others involves delegation. Quite a few small business owners struggle with learning how to delegate.  Delegating and abdicating can look pretty similar at the beginning.

How can you tell them apart?  Let’s examine Bob’s story, to understand how to delegate without abdicating.

Mark Gets a Promotion, Bob Gets a Vacation

Bob started his business because he is good at what he does. As his reputation in the marketplace grew, so did his business.

He reached the point where he could no longer do it alone. So he hired Mark, then Jim, then others.

The roster may have expanded but Bob’s workload stayed the same. Bob never got away from being busy all the time as the business grew.

Something had to give.

One day Bob made a big mistake.  He forgot to place an order for a critical inventory item. It just slipped through the cracks in all the commotion of a typical hectic week. He had multiple unhappy customers due to the lack of stock.

But Mark came in with a solution.  Buy the items from a local competitor to deliver to their long time customers, he suggested. It wasn’t a profitable solution but it at least kept the customers happy.

This got Bob thinking, “Mark is a ‘get it done’ kind of guy. He really understands what matters here. A happy customer is more important than the profit on one transaction. Mark is the kind of guy I can trust to make the right decisions.”

So on Friday afternoon, Bob tells Mark he has a crazy idea. If he doesn’t get a break soon, he is going to wig out.

So he is taking a week off starting Monday. He’s heading up to the forest where there’s no Internet, no mobile phone reception. Just pine trees, peace and quiet. He’s leaving Mark in charge. Mark already knows everything about the business. It will be just fine.

Mark is a little dubious about this. Sure, he is confident that he knows the business. It’s just that there are things only Bob has ever done.

Bob won’t hear it though. He thinks Mark is just being modest. So with a flourish, he hands the keys over to Mark and heads out the door with a big smile on his face.

Let’s Stop Our Story For a Moment

Delegation involves several steps. The first step is to determine the right person to delegate to.

“Right” does not necessarily mean “presently qualified.” Delegation is a multi-step process.

Being qualified isn’t enough.  The fact that the target of your delegation is presently qualified can actually get you into trouble. It can lull you into short cutting the necessary steps of delegation — and turn you into an abdicator.

After selecting a person to delegate to, you need to train and instruct that person.  Then you need to give assignments and authority.

It does no good to make someone responsible for paying vendors if they can’t sign the check. You can’t instruct an employee to keep the store appropriately staffed if he or she isn’t allowed to alter the schedule. Sometimes we forget the authority we ourselves possess.

It pays to think this through. It’s not a bad idea to ask the person what authority he or she thinks is necessary to carry out the assignments.

If you find yourself bristling at the person’s reply, consider whether it is because the person is overreaching or if you are just uncomfortable giving away the authority required to get the job done.

Delegation can be emotionally challenging for you. After all, the person could fail. What is even scarier is – the person could do it differently from the way you’ve done it.

We are often more attached to our methods than the outcomes. Get clear if you are going to delegate. Outcomes are the only thing you truly manage going forward.

You must allow your employees the freedom to perform. Micromanaging (really, managing at all) will stifle their work and defeat the whole point of delegating.

Your intention needs to be to free yourself of these particular responsibilities — completely.

Plug into the possibility that your qualified staff are now a part of your brain trust. Their ideas and innovations are an extension of you. Let them bring something to the table.

Monitoring and Feedback are Crucial

Just because you have delegated doesn’t mean you wash your hands clean of the whole thing.

Monitor results and outcomes. Do the results meet your expectations? If they do, offer praise. Positive feedback encourages people to keep up the good work.

If results are not up to par, understand it is your responsibility to help the person make adjustments.  Try to determine what went wrong and what’s needed, including:

  • Did you train your employee properly?
  • Does he or she need a refresher?
  • Were your instructions clear?
  • Did the employee understand the outcome you were seeking?
  • Did he or she have the resources needed?
  • Did he or she really have the necessary authority?

The 6 Steps of Delegation

To effectively delegate, and not abdicate, you must do these steps, in this order:

  • Select
  • Train
  • Instruct
  • Assign
  • Authorize
  • Mentor

If you’ve stopped anywhere along these steps — you didn’t delegate, you abdicated.

The earlier you stopped, the worse the abdication was and the higher the potential damage.

Once you understand that there are six steps involved, the difference between delegating and abdicating starts to look clearer.

Circling back to our story of Bob and Mark — whatever happened with Mark?

Tanned, Rested and Back On The Job

Bob strolls back into work with a new spring in his step. He’s asking himself why he waited so long to take some time off. After all, Mark could have covered for him long ago.

Mark is already in the office. He looks up haggardly and says, “Oh man, am I ever glad to see you.”

Bob inquires, “Why, what’s up?”

Mark then launches into a litany of unexpected happenings. This broke. That person was late. The supplier shipped the wrong size. The company’s latest customer wants a price break.

Mark wasn’t prepared for any of this.

Bob barely got past step one of a six step process before he disconnected. He didn’t train or instruct.

So here’s Mark, all stressed out that he “failed” — when it was Bob who failed him!

Bob abdicated rather than delegated.

So now Bob has some work to do. It’s not just that he needs to clean up from last week. He needs to step back and prepare Mark so that next time, Mark can take it all on.

Mark is up for it.  As for Bob, knowing now what he needs to do to delegate properly, he will get it right next time.

After all, Bob is going to need another vacation soon enough.

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Kenneth Vogt Kenneth Vogt helps entrepreneurial men with a big purpose cut through the fog to change the world. You can find updates of true clarity and a free guide, "How To Get Clarity and Hold On To It" at Vera Claritas.

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  1. Feedback is the step I usually see missed. You have to schedule in time for the feedback and don’t rush it.

    • Exactly. Delegation isn’t just washing your hands of something. You still have to maintain a minimum amount of engagement. Actually, being allowed to still have some involvement can make it easier for you to accept the possibility of delegating.